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Happy Birthday, Tony

Uncategorized | November 20, 2017

Feathery snowflakes on Tony’s birthday, they look like soft kisses. Oh how I miss him. Wiped a single tear, followed then by a half-smile of amusement. I do miss him. But not all day every day. Part of the missing is what we once had, the comfort of routines, income, and being a partner. Ahh, […]

November Time

Uncategorized | October 31, 2017

Last night when I heard the rain hammering and wind blowing I thought about how my life is like the weather! An odd comparison, perhaps. It seems possible that anyone who is in transition is truly in the “November time” of our own calendar. Some days we close the curtains, put on our favorite pajamas […]

Turkey Time

Uncategorized | October 10, 2017

Giving thanks is precious action, ideally an everyday mindset we can turn to in dark times. Last evening, while sitting on my balcony, neighbours returned one by one from Thanksgiving dinner out. In particular, one older couple caught my attention. Their driver came around to the front seat passenger side of the vehicle and leaned […]

Thanks, Mister Rogers.

Uncategorized | September 17, 2017

Thanks, Mister Rogers. Earlier this week when I tuned in to WNED Channel 17 broadcasting from Buffalo, N.Y.. the on-air program was a documentary about Mister Rogers. Caregivers travelling the Alzheimer road with a loved one more often than not feel overwhelmed with it all. These two memorable quotes hit home for me. • “Deep […]

Letter to Tony, July 2008

Uncategorized | July 3, 2017

July 2008 My dearest husband, I’m just sitting on the little verandah of our Kamping Cabin watching passersby, and not much activity. Even in the short time of about four hours since I drove you to the resort to spend some time with your son and daughter, I am already feeling more relaxed. Several chipmunks […]

Pulling Weeds

Uncategorized | June 26, 2017

Pulling weeds, akin to separating wheat from chaff, is a rewarding accomplishment. By 2013 Tony’s disease brought him to uninvited apathy. It was time to start the process of gradually clearing out unused items. Here’s an excerpt from Chapter 37. “When Tony’s daily exercise on the treadmill ceased, it sat idle for awhile and was […]

What sustains you?

Uncategorized | June 4, 2017

I want to share an inspirational post from my author friend Yvonne Heath. Even on sunshiney days we all need something to lean on. The privilege of sitting at the keyboard and sharing my Dear Tony thoughts with you is what sustains me. Keep your focus and move forward. http://www.loveyourlifetodeath.com/blogs–vlogs/finding-your-post

Finding your way on Mother’s Day

Uncategorized | May 14, 2017

A dear friend recently commented to me that she thinks I’m still grieving. Her sensitivity pulled me up short; and upon reflection, I have to agree. Mourning is not always for loss of a loved one through illness such as Alzheimer’s disease or death. Whomever is left behind also grieves for “what was once ours” […]

Two years and counting

Uncategorized | March 5, 2017

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Same time this year

Uncategorized | February 19, 2017

I glanced often at a holiday picture on the bedroom dresser. Our faces seemed lost in time; no regrets, plenty of good fun – all behind us.  Sometimes now, when someone looked at Tony they would see that “the lights were on, but nobody was home”. Like most couples our wedding day had been celebrated […]

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