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Some days we close the curtains, put on our favorite pajamas and generally withdraw from activities
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follow Familiarizing myself with “Stages of Grief” chart; was when “the penny dropped” for me. It’s like a calendar. I can identify what stage I’m at, and can see both how far I’ve come and how far there is to go. For me, keeping in mind that I’m on the path to recovery is important. Things will improve as I move forward.
The peculiarities of being a new person in a new world are difficult concepts. It makes perfect sense that I want to make the “old” still a part of the new. When I see others with sad hearts and trying to make sense of it all, “November time” is an excellent adjective.
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My niece keeps reminding me that “I think too much”. Over-thinking makes us sad, we have to turn our thoughts away from negativity and find a glimpse of light instead of shadow.
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I’m still trying to find a little corner where everything fits together and feels just right. There’s no such place.
I’m not my old self yet; and never will be. I’m becoming my new self.
http://ramblingroseboutique.com/?prertwe=hollywood-chicago-hookup&5b7=91 An accident last March was an unkind setback for me, not only from a pain perspective. Recovering from more than one grievous loss at a time once is really tedious. I think, sometimes with a smile of sorts, about my own journey from Tony dying in December of 2014, to our dog dying in January, then my only sister dying in February; then listing and selling our home and moving…and then to falling, immobility, and then moving again all in a within two years.. Ouch for sure!
watch Putting one foot in front of the other every day is like a slow march along the Camino Trail I’m discovering, every step of the way, and it can’t always be perfect weather or I’ll miss some of the beauty.
This quotation from Samuel Johnson’s Selected Writings suits perfectly today. “The natural flights of the human mind are not from pleasure to pleasure, but from hope to hope.”